Here we are in this season of many holidays and few hours of sunlight. A joyous time for some of us, a difficult time for others, and a mixed bag for many.
A few months ago, I gave myself a rather inadvertent gift that I would like to offer to you. I decided to give a series of talks on the Brahmaviharas and because there is a month between talks, that gave me about 120 days of deeper contemplation of these four Divine Abodes.
The ongoing familiarity with these teachings seemed to lift and open my heart. I was happier than normal, felt more compassion, had experiences of real joy in the happiness of others and found a greater sense of equanimity. These experiences should not have come as a surprise. Phrases like “incline the mind,” “hear, think and meditate” and “habituate,” all point to the powerful importance of familiarizing the mind with Dharma teachings. That means we take certain thoughts and ways of viewing the world into our daily practice. We work with these things every day in some form.
The simple teaching to repeat things over and over is basic, straightforward, effective, and common sense. The mind goes in the direction of repeated exposure.
To refresh your mind, here is a passage on Brahmaviharas from the Kalama Sutta as translated by Thanissaro Bhikkhu:
"Now, Kalamas, one who is a disciple of the noble ones — thus devoid of greed, devoid of ill will, undeluded, alert, & resolute — keeps pervading the first direction [the east] — as well as the second direction, the third, & the fourth — with an awareness imbued with good will. Thus he keeps pervading above, below, & all around, everywhere & in every respect the all-encompassing cosmos with an awareness imbued with good will: abundant, expansive,
"He keeps pervading the first direction — as well as the second direction, the third, & the fourth — with an awareness imbued with compassion. Thus he keeps pervading above, below, & all around, everywhere & in every respect the all-encompassing cosmos with an awareness imbued with compassion: abundant, expansive, immeasurable, free from
hostility, free from ill will.
"He keeps pervading the first direction — as well as the second direction, the third, & the fourth — with an awareness imbued with appreciation. Thus he keeps pervading above, below, & all around, everywhere & in every respect the all-encompassing cosmos with an awareness imbued with appreciation: abundant, expansive, immeasurable, free from
hostility, free from ill will.
"He keeps pervading the first direction — as well as the second direction, the third, & the fourth — with an awareness imbued with equanimity. Thus he keeps pervading above, below, & all around, everywhere & in every respect the all-encompassing cosmos with an awareness imbued with equanimity: abundant, expansive, immeasurable, free from
hostility, free from ill will.”
These four divine abodes are sometimes put into this short form that is recited by many every day and what I like to use in offering merit:
May all beings experience happiness and the causes of happiness.
May all beings be free from suffering and the causes of suffering.
May all beings never be separated from the joy that is beyond all sorrow.
May all beings rest in equanimity free from attachment and aversion.
So consider these four a seasonal gift from the Buddha to you. But you have to do something with the gift. It is not to be put in the drawer with ugly sweaters. You need to contemplate these four states of mind if you want the mind to incline in that direction. You need to meditate on the thoughts and feelings of these dwelling places to allow the mind to transform.
This is a daily practice. Find some time to contemplate these four. If you do, you will see them grow in your mind and spread in your life. The beauty of this gift is that it is really all about others and yourself. You wish these things
for all beings. You are one of these beings. But all of us have probably noticed that constantly wishing for our own happiness and dwelling on any lack we may feel causes misery. So try wishing deeply for all beings and you will be the first to benefit. Know this is not magic. It would be rare indeed for reading an article or considering something for a moment or two to cause a transformation. It is practice, my friends, practice that makes entering the divine abodes possible. With that in mind, we should all consider practices such as these something to be adopted for a lifetime where we find some way to get these thoughts into our daily mind stream.
I hope you give it a try for at least a few weeks of steady practice. Give the gift for all beings to abide in these abodes. Remember you are included. If you need more information, that Google thing is waiting for your Brahmaviharas search.
May you incline your mind in a divine direction this season.
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