September 2025 Newsletter

September 2025 Newsletter

Imagination Becomes Reality

Pam Steinbach

My old (and I mean old; he died some time ago at age 103) tai chi teacher, T. T. Liang, wrote a book titled Imagination Becomes Reality. I’d say imagination IS reality; relative reality anyway. What is in mind is your reality. I wrote about that in a previous newsletter and what I want to convey here is that one has, you have, the opportunity as a relatively healthy sentient being to decide what to put in your mind. 

We all have disturbing thoughts arise and there are antidotes, other thoughts, that can direct your mind. We don’t have to get carried into anger, jealousy, fear. It’s not to deny or bury or spiritually bypass but to slow down and not get swept off to unskillful actions of body, speech, or mind. Equanimity is not always easy. But the place to start is with mindfulness - remembering our intent, the path we aspire to follow and awareness of when we stray. Mind is the forerunner of it all. Habituating those negative mind states leads to negative actions of body and speech and painful karmic results. With mindfulness and awareness in meditation we can remain focused and know when we aren’t and come back. This trains the mind.

Yet there are the remaining hours of the day, aren’t there? We stand up and greet the challenges of the day and resentment, anger, jealousy, fear is sometimes our reaction to it. And all those disturbing emotions can arise in meditation, too. They can disrupt sleep and lead to harmful actions and regret. Those middle of the night spinning thoughts that can get absurd and hold us tight. What to do? Right there, you can turn to an antidote. When resentment and anger rage like fire, you can endure the disturbing emotion for patience to arise; when attachment consumes, realizing that whatever is grasped for is impermanent; when jealous, we can appreciate the other’s good fortune. Love is the supreme antidote. When Buddha’s followers were practicing in the forest, they felt disturbed and fearful of beings there so they went to the Buddha for help. He taught them metta, loving-kindness. The word metta carries the power of over 2,500 years of history. Is metta not a kind of mantra? You maybe already use it as an offering and it brings love to your mind. 

As an antidote as well as a preventative, I practice a mantra. Mantra means mind protection. A mantra guards your mind. You can place in mind something that carries the energy of hundreds of years from the breath, mouths, and minds of enlightened masters. The whole body engages in making and perceiving a sound that can protect mind from ignorant action and unskillful speech and cuts through habitual karmic tendencies. A silent mantra at the start of meditation brings focus to a scattered mind and instills peace and confidence. Many of you recently took the challenge to avoid speaking ill of others and/or harsh speech. It was a learning for many of us to see how often the urge arises. When that urge arises, one can bring forth a silent chant instead of giving voice to the words about to spill forth. 
When I ride my bike, I chant a mantra. As I meet people walking or biking or driving toward me, the mantra that accompanies me on the bike path brings forth a mind wrapped in the wish they be free of obscurations and habitual tendencies and I wish for them happiness and wellbeing. I imagine it does that for them and it lifts me up for sure. They usually return my smile with theirs but if not, I assume they need it and wish them more. The mantra makes those I meet appear as precious beings I have a gift to give. I feel a bit excited to see them; “Oh, here comes one!” You have a gift to give. 

The practice of mantra evokes aspects that include love and instills pervading refuge in the path. It evades the karmic imprint of habitual discursive thoughts. There are many mantras that hold different meanings. Om, ah, hung is a mantra most widely practiced. It relates to a loving and virtuous body, speech, and mind respectfully. My grandchildren have been soothed by Om tare tu tare ture so ha which evokes an image of protection and safety and is one my teacher chants and bestows to all. I think it’s wise to choose one mantra and stick with it, planting it familiar in mind so it arises easily as a skillful response.

This is available to you! It’s constantly available and portable into so many arisings in life. We need all the help we can get and I feel so fortunate to have this practice and to share it as a pointer to you as there are many resources to learn more about it. In these times, as in all times, we need a practice of love and peace in order to actualize it. What we imagine can become reality. 

I encourage you to bring Buddhism into your life; not fitting a little Dharma in here or there but really lifting your whole life into practice. Mantra is a way to do that by using your body, breath, and speech to absorb your life in love, compassion, and wisdom.

Update From The Board

Join us for a discussion and exploration of the book: We Were Made For These Times: 10 Lessons for Moving Through Change, Loss, and Disruption by Kaira Jewel Lingo. Book Group meets every third Tuesday, immediately following Sangha. The group begins this month and meets once a month through May. Please sign up on our website.

IMFW Fall Retreat; “Understanding Peace Amongst the Chaos of the World” is being led by Tri-State Dharma member, president, and teacher, Joan Staubach on October 17, 18, and 19. Please sign up to join on our website. 

An Introduction to Insight Meditation is being taught by Drew Consalvo, IMFW Guiding Teacher. It will be taught four Monday evenings in November at 6:00 pm. Please sign up on our website.

The Board of Directors for IMFW, which is a not-for-profit 501(c)(3) organization:
Drew Consalvo, Guiding Teacher
Deb O’Kelly, President
Dora Rogers, Secretary 
Monica Cardenas, Treasurer
Tammy Dyer, Founding Member and Teacher Emeritus
Matthew Katinsky
David Clough
Lee Bender

Our mission is to provide for the study and practice of Insight (Vipassanā) Meditation according to the Theravāda Buddhist religious tradition and to support and encourage the development of community based upon Buddhist ideals, teachings and practices.

Book Group

Join us for an exploration of the book We Were Made For These Times; 10 Lessons for Moving Through Change, Loss, and Disruption by Kaira Jewel Lingo. Our first session will be September 16th, Barb Lahman leading.  We will meet monthly downstairs on the third Tuesday, immediately following the dharma talk. I attempt to keep our meetings to one hour. We start as close to 7pm as possible and end by 8 pm.  Please purchase your own copy of the book.  I would ask that you have read the preface and the first chapter of the book so that we can begin our discussion that first evening. 

Anyone interested in doing this study of the book, please sign up here. We ask that you do sign up in order to receive any communication about this meeting. I will use your email information only to remind you of the assignment and the upcoming meeting. As always at IMFW, all courses are offered freely. Dana is gratefully accepted. This course is offered in person only (no Zoom) at 2332 Sandpoint Road, Fort Wayne, IN.

You can find the book on Amazon here or at Parallax Press here.

- Barb Lahman

Fall Retreat

Oct 2025

“Understanding Peace Amongst the Chaos of the World” is the theme of the teachings for the IMFW fall retreat.  Joan Staubach is returning to teach.
We welcome Tri-State Dharma teacher, Joan Staubach, back to Insight Meditation Fort Wayne to guide our fall retreat, October 17, 18, and 19.  The retreat opens up Friday evening at 7:00 pm with a talk that is open to the public.  Saturday, the retreat is scheduled 9:00 am – 5:00 pm and Sunday 9:00 am – noon.  This non-residential retreat is in person only at 2332 Sandpoint Road, Fort Wayne, IN.

If you would like to register for this retreat, or get more information please sign up at https://www.imfw.org/retreat-fall.

This is a nonresidential retreat, meaning you go home every night.  Please bring a lunch for yourself on Saturday. This retreat is in person, only (no Zoom).

There is no fee for this retreat, but you will be given the opportunity to offer dana (Pali for generosity) in whatever amount you’re comfortable with.

Joan Staubach is an active member and president of Tri-State Dharma. She is an experienced practitioner of Insight Meditation. She started practicing Insight Meditation in 1999, and has been on over 40 week-long or longer residential retreats. She has taught and co-taught Tri-State Dharma’s New Year’s Retreat for many years, led daylong retreats, and taught numerous Insight Meditation classes. She has taken training retreats with Matthew Flickstein on Sharing the Dharma.

Introduction to Insight Meditation

Nov 2025

Drew Consalvo, guiding teacher at Insight Meditation Fort Wayne, is offering an Introduction to Insight Meditation Class, beginning Monday, November 3, and continuing for four weeks. Drew’s teaching will be based upon the Four Foundations of Mindfulness as practiced in Theravada Buddhism.  

This four-week course will offer an introductory look at mindfulness of body and breath, feeling, mind, and phenomena. These classes may help you discover ways to benefit from a dedicated meditation practice and perhaps learn a bit more about Buddhist practice in general. 

These classes will be offered at Sangha House, 2332 Sand Point Road. Please join Drew every Monday, November 3 through November 24, 2025, from 6:00 - 7:00 p.m. and learn about meditation from the Theravada tradition.  

To register, please fill out the form here.

For further information, contact us at insightmeditationfw@gmail.com.

This is class is offered freely. Please consider donating to IMFW to help us continue to offer programs like this. Donate here.

Day of Practice

Susan Weir

Day of Practice at Insight Meditation Fort Wayne with Susan Weir, Founding Teacher of Insight Meditation Ann Arbor, on February 28 from 9:00 am – 4:00 pm. Join Susan as she teaches: The Map of Realization.  
 
“The default in life is to look to external things: relationships, circumstances, family, work, health, thoughts, opinions and beliefs, to bring us peace and happiness. We look to the outside for happiness. When this fails, the search for a path, a spiritual path out of suffering, often begins.

“The word ‘path’ implies we need to travel, to be somewhere different than where we are. We usually come to a spiritual practice with this idea that we need to be somewhere else, to be someone else, someone more perfected, in order to be happy. In many ways, the spiritual work is to drop this deep conditioning of searching and realize everything we need has been there all along. It’s been so close to us that we have missed it.

“And yet nothing that we have done or tried is wasted. All is exactly well.
 
“As we release this process of searching we start to come home to ourselves. Creating a map from where this journey starts, the realizations that build along the way through insight practice, and the stepping out of the seemingly separate self can wake us up to the end of searching.”

In a one day format, we’ll start at the beginning of practice, review the insights along the way, find the places where practice lineage changes, and come to the direct path of seeing our true nature. 

Susan Weir has been teaching Insight Meditation classes and retreats since 1999. Her background includes Gurdjieff, Zen, and Insight Meditation (Vipasssana). Teachers of influence have been Samu Sunim, Barbara Brodsky, Joseph Goldstein, Matthew Flickstein and Adyashanti. Her mentors have included Loren Cruden and Stephen Bodian. She currently studies with Rupert Spira and Helen Hamilton. Susan became the founding teacher of Insight Meditation Ann Arbor in 2012
Insight Meditation Fort Wayne holds its classes and meditation groups without charge, in the spirit of freely offering the Buddha’s teachings.
 
May all beings be well, happy, and peaceful.
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